If you have had oily skin all your life you are probably lucky and don't have too many wrinkles. As far as oily skin goes remember:
Many people think that oily skin needs to be dried out. My suggestion is to do your moisture regime at NIGHT when it doesn't matter so much if your skin is shiny or not. The scarring on the cheeks can be dealt with by massaging a tissue oil into the skin, also at night. Try to find one that contains Vitamin E if you can.
Using a masque can help a lot. Especially one that you can leave on all night long. The masque will seal in the moisture that you apply at night and let the skin absorb it without leaving it on your pillow.
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