Is it for a close friend?? Cos I would be “getting sick” like nobody’s business.

He’s having a boy’s night at home, watching the footy with the kids and a bunch of guys from work. Which is fine, I’m totally cool with it. I more have a problem with the fact that the kids still don’t know we’re together and hence I still can’t spend heaps of time there and give him cuddles and stay over while the kids are there. I feel very much like I’m put in a box - like there are “kids week” and “kate week”. It won’t be like this forever obviously, and I am happy that he is being very considerate of when/how to tell them, but I can’t help but wonder why the wait.