Yeah he is going to confused them!! If he waits too long and then u guys move in, they will think its too soon!!!
Oh man. You guys have awhole other level of complication. Maybe you guys need to set a date and stick to it. The kids reaction wont be different whether he tells them now or in a few weeks. They know you already so nothing is going to change between now and then, right?
Im off babe, im sure I will speak to you over the weekend!!!!!!!!! xxxx