Yep I'm flaky too. That's why I can't criticise although I found it a hell of a turn-off.
He asked me to go to the Playboy party!! He asked me on Tuesday night and I said it wasn't my scene and I shut him down. He's going with his sister. :chuckle: But I shut him down BEFORE I realised I liked him - at that point he was just a weirdo stalker.