I really love the Estée Lauder double wear lengthening mascara. It's a tubing mascara so it is easily removed in the shower under warm water and gently running your finger tips across your lashes with your eyes closed. It doesn't flake or smudge! Very good my lashes but better mascara
Another one which I'm loving because the brush is similar to Benefit They're Real is the Lancome Volume a porter! The brush is a little more gentle when applying and allows you to get into the roots of your lashes without being prickly. It doesn't clump and the brush allows for definition and length even though it's got Volume in the name. Removal is easy with a Micellar water so no harsh tugging around the eye area. I sometimes notice slight smudging after a long day in the outer corners of my eyes but it's easily corrected.